Getting a date, having a terrific time together and then going for more dates. Slowly, many of you feel that you are made for each other. In the beginning of your relation, you have still not found out much about the plans and thoughts of your woman. Slowly you begin realizing that both of you are headed in different directions in this love. You feel helpless and frustrated. Are you dating the wrong person and thinking of a future together. Are you in love with a person who does not fit in with my plans and with whom I do not belong with. The worst part is that some of you do not think and realize about these factors till your relationship comes a long way. Some do it after getting married to them. Would it not be better if you find out more about the future plans of your true love in the beginning itself? Obviously, you can not ask that as  this question on the first date. You have to break some rules and begin liking each other first. You should indirectly find out about the plans of your partner. Listening actively from day one will be of great help. Sometimes, you get clear clues but choose to ignore them. Sometimes, you keep up with wishful thinking. Liking and loving will not solve life's problems. All of us have our priorities and unless our priorities match and we are sure that we are headed in the same direction, the ride will be very rough. Find out more before you see that you are not dating the right person.